Lingam Worship

Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the male phallus and translates as “Wand of Light”. It is also the representation of the Hindu deity, Shiva, used for worship in temples. In sacred tantra, the lingam is honored as a “Wand of Light” that channels pleasure and a symbol of male creative energy.
Tantra teaches that there are many nerve endings on the lingam that correspond to other parts of the body. It is believed that many ailments can be cured by receiving a good lingam worship experience.



Lingam worship creates a time for you (the receiver) to relax and receive expanded pleasure from your lingam. The Goddess, (and the giver) experiences the joy of facilitating and watching your surrender to a softer, gentler side. The lingam worship can be an excellent way to build trust and intimacy and helps to heal from outdated or negative sexual conditioning and trauma.

While orgasm is never the goal, it's often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal is to allow the receiver to surrender to a new form of pleasure that is different than what may have been experienced before.


Traditional male conditioning places you in a doing and goal oriented mode. Men need to learn to RELAX and RECEIVE. This healing experience helps you learn to relax and receive, while experiencing pleasure from a non-traditional perspective.


When you arrive for your healing experience, the first thing to do is leave all negative and chaotic energy outside! Turn off your cell phone and take your time - breathe deeply. Conscious, relaxed breathing immediately takes you out of your mental process. Relax your belly and let go of the tension that many of us hold there.


During this time, the receiver will let go of all thoughts and connect with the Goddess through a variety of sensual, relaxing techniques, bringing both to a place of relaxation and trust.

As contact is made on an energetic and physical level, you will sink deeper into relaxation. The Godess will take her time, giving attention to often neglected areas of the body, including what the Taoists call the 'Million Dollar Point'.

The lingam may get hard, then go soft, get hard again, which is a highly desirable Tantric experience, like riding a wave, bobbing up and down. Hard and soft are two ends of the sensual pleasure spectrum.


Keep in mind that the goal is not orgasm in and of itself. Men can learn the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by coming close and then backing off on the stimulation. Deep breathing is key here and will soften the urge to let go. Ejaculatory mastery will allow you to make love as long as you want and become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that you can learn to separate to achieve an expanded sex life.


Oftentimes, the receiver may have strong emotions come up during this experience. The receiver is encouraged to moan, scream, cry out, or sob, if it feels appropriate. You will be charged up with temendous energy which can be let go and channeled in a variety of ways - either out or inward for other areas of your being.

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